Lifeinthemusic (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Bravo.

4359634 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I really like this. It reinforces what Ive experienced knowing what it means to love and commit with total acceptance of the person you love, as they are. If you want to change the person, you don't love them, you love your ideals, not the person.

NancyLee53 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

You are very fortunate. My husband left me for another woman after 30 years. I miss him so much. :*(

JoeFloD (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

You Rock!

GreenTreeFrog (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Very sage advice, ma'am.

Sinfoniette (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Personally, the seatbelt makes me a little comfortable and safe. Thats just me.

WTF1920 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

"How about you? You just sound like a sexist, facist pig. Good luck having a girlfriend with that attitude..."My list of 1-6 doesn't sound sexist at all. Sounds about as fair as you can get. If fact, that's what things would be like if they were truly equal. You can either have equality or chivalry, but not both. I would not want any woman who tries to have both. I'll be just fine without her, trust me.

funkymcbean (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

How about you? You just sound like a sexist, facist pig. Good luck having a girlfriend with that attitude.. most things you listed were just things men do out of curtioucy or just to be a gentlemen (which mind you, were set by men themselves), as for custody, the women did bring them into the world and often give better care. The man only has to pay for care of the child, not HER selfish needs. I hope this is the last of your woman hating rampages. It isn't looking good for you.

WTF1920 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Well...you got something smart to say to that? Or what?

WTF1920 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

5: The divorced father and mother should have equal custody rights. The father should not see their child only once a week.6: The father should not have to pay 1/3 of his paycheck for child support while the mom gets a free ride with alimony.If you disagree with ANY of these above statements, then you fit the feminist stereotype. If this is the case, then you are no better than the rest.